As far as the people on the internet wanting to know how much money that you have before they will date. That is very common. It is not unusal to see an ad placed by a women who wants a man that earns $30,000 per month. There is a place in Scottsdale, Arizona where you can rent Ferraris, Maseratis, cars like that. The conversation with my wife and friends was that they did not think that those things were important to women. So to drive home the point, we set up a time that the other couple and my wife would meet at a certain bar in Scottsdale. This place is known as a high dollar hang out. The first time they were there ahead of me, I drove up in my pickup dressed casually, parked in the vallet then went in. Did not act as though I knew anyone, although my wife and the other couple were there and watching the entire time. Never could strike a conversation with anyone there, even the women that were clearly business women. The next weekend we all went back to the same place, this time I rented a Ferrari, dressed casually again, parked in the vallet parking area,and once inside the bar I made sure that everyone got a look at my cash roll. I was approached by no less than eight women, some of them had no qualms about where they put their hands either. One of them was so agressive, that Mrs.Dweller descided she needed to come over and look out for her territory. In the US we call women like that "Gold Diggers." You have no problem meeting them on the net and they will tell you up front what kind of money they expect you do to have. You have to bear in mind that not all women are like that, but there is no shortage of the ones that are that way, and you do not have to look hard to find them. I have a sister-in-law that made sure that she married a doctor so that she could "live the good life" and she literally targeted that poor bastard for marriage. After she had been married a few years and of course things were not going the way she wanted them to go she went to a lawyer to find out what she would get from a divorce. The lawyer told her she would get nothing, she back away from the divorce idea and stayed with him. Such a sweetheart she
is.
Well, I have no words.
That's true?
And with the UE, many Craftsmen came to Spain to fill that need (i.e., from Poland, for example). A good percentage of them are working 'off the books.' They do jobs ike maintaining Pisos: painting, plumbing, carpentry, etc. They are not counted as part of the Spanish labor pool; they are officially invisible. The same may also be said for all the German families that run restaurants along the Costa Blanca and the 'Brits' doing the same on the Costa del Sol. They put in long hours and earn lots of Euro. Meanwhile many Spaniards hide behind the Biblical: "to dig I am unable; to beg I am ashamed."
This idea that you are pointing is a huge fact in Spain, I could say that at least 15% of all the bricklayers and plumbers I know are Romanian or from Lithuania.
It's incredible.
And the builders are earning big money with them cause they are paid 15-25% less than a spaniard for the same job.
I am not saying that Spanish workers don't want to work or that they don't do an honest day's work. It might have been fashionable to study Philosophy at the University, but there isn't much of a market for Philosophers or Social Scientists out
there.
Well, I'm gonna give you a real exemple:
My cousin is nanager in an agricultural cooperative, he told me that last month they offered two jobs:
a) Accountant, they asked for some young boy with a degree in bussiness administration, they offered 750 euros/ month.
They had 60 candidates in only 2 days.
b) A irrigate-man (he had to irrigate orange trees), this job don't need qualification.
They offered 800 euros / month.
Candidates the first week: ZERO. (only illegal immigrants but no spaniards).
Then they offered 1100 euros month.
Candidates: ZERO.
Then offered 1500 euros month:
Candidates 2.
If somebody want to check it or want to know how easy-hard is find a good job being a craftsman or a man with a college degree I recommend to go to
www.infojobs.net It's the most important site in Spain to find a job.
I copy an exemple:
I wrote in the websearcher the word "fontanero" (plumber) outcome: 50 job offers.
Candidates per offer: 0-10.
Salary, most of them beetween 15000-25000 plus extras, some offers go to 50.000.
I wrote the word psicologo (psicologist):
Outcome: 20 offers.
Candidates per offer: around 200
Salary: 12-15000 euros year, some go to 24.000