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I think MUCH has to do from where you're coming. Are you coming from Europe or North America or from Asia? Some 'Americans' tend to see Madrileños/Spaniards as somewhat UNfriendly, rude, and disinterested towards tourists. However, I suspect that Italians and Greeks find them to be fine people.
You see, at least in my opinion, "it's all relative". Seems to me there is a long thread around here about
perceived rudeness by waiters and staff in restaurants and hotels.
The Spaniards I've gotten to know relatively well are warm, welcoming, & friendly people. In fact, to me, Spaniards seem more
real without much of the false-politeness that many others (including me) carry around with them in order to make those around us happy.
So what's the answer to your question? I guess there isn't any real answer. It all depends on your own background, your "home environment", your perspective.
Enjoy Madrid and Spain! I know you'll love it..... MORE if you have an open mind - NOT being judgemental.
Saludos, MadridMan
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