Ha! See, I disappear from the board and still find my name all over it!
To answer LaProfa's question (thanks Puna!) I am an American married to a Spaniard. We were married in the States and then had the marriage legally recognized once we moved to Spain. Once that was done we applied for the Libro de Familia. Then, I applied for my legal residency in Spain. In order to do so I had to apply for a visa (reuniting family members) at the Spanish Consulate in NYC enabling me to stay in Spain long term while my paperwork went through.
My residency is under the "regimen comunitario" giving me the same rights as other EU citizens (no need to get a separate work visa). It has to be renewed every 5 years and is valid for as long as I am married. If, God forbid, we ever got divorced, my rights to live and work in this country would end. However, because we now have a son who is both a Spanish (and US) citizen, I would legally be allowed to stay and support my son until he turned 18.
I have debated the issue of becoming a Spanish national, but since it is not 100% clear if I would lose my American citizenship I have decided not to walk that path and have just remained a resident. Being a resident gives me almost the same rights as a Spaniard, except for voting in national elections and perhaps a few other obscure things.
Hope this has answered your question.
unless it's to work the counter at The American Store. (the one I visited there was an Asian woman working there and I don't know if she spoke English or not because I spoke to her only in Spanish)
It's to my understanding that the family who owns The American Store is Filipino-American (arrghh... us Filipinos, we are everywhere
), so that would explain the Asian woman working there!