Wow, responses already - thanks guys, seems I should have started asking stuff here long ago - and not less than a month before my departure! But better late than never.
Connie - I can deal with the pretty warm, it was just the threats of 95-100 all the time for some of the other cities that scared me off - but reading about cadiz and other coastal places that the temp is defintely what I'm looking for. But will the Atlantic water be warm enough when I'm over there? I've had this romantic vision of how perfect the Mediterranean would feel.
But another question: I'm wondering if you guys think Cadiz can offer everything that I'm looking for, which I'll try to summarize here: in addition to what I wrote in my first post, I'd really like to meet young people and have a good time. I'm a 21 year-old college student, and while I don't do the clubs or crazy binge drinking, I also really liked a friend's description of her great nights in Malaga, hanging out w/ other kids (I hope I still count as that), staying up all night, ending up on the beach w/ wine, etc. I want to go to a place that has history, that isn't super busy, where you can get to know people, that also has a strong-enough presence of young people doing young people stuff (not that older people can't too, but you know what I mean). So I'm hoping Cadiz will have enough to keep me busy - I definitely don't want this to be the kind of trip for which I don't remember the details, either because things got repetitive and blended together or because I killed most of my brain cells.
Roses - If things go as planned and I am indeed there, I of course would love the opportunity to sit down to a meal with you guys - being so far away, it would be nice to know I could meet up people.
But I have another question that hopefully Madrid folks can help me out with. I'm not completely sure I should do half my time in Madrid. To me, it's always just kinda been assumed that that's where I'd start, b/c it is the biggest city, b/c it is in a central location, b/c there is no doubt so much to do there. But now that I think about it more I wonder if I really should - I go to school in NYC, and before that had never lived in a city. While I do like some aspects of city life here, one that I haven't is getting to know people. I haven't really made too many friendships here - I'm by nature shy when I initially meet people, and unless something just clicks, I usually stay that way. Living in a big city where everyone is busy and doing their own thing, and at school where I don't have any kind of traditional campus, has made it hard to meet people. Is Madrid the New York of Spain? Or is it, like I am getting the sense, like the rest of Spain, more warm, a city where I'd be able to find my place, not just get lost in the mix?
Sorry for these long posts - guess I haven't mastered the art of brevity. And sorry for the unsolicited psychological profile, it's just that I do have these doubts about where to go, and figure you spain-lovers would have the best chance of helping me out if I explain them well.
Thanks so much,
Brian