Ufff....I agree with Cantamal. I do not propose to be a marriage counselor, but would certainly advise against getting hitched just for the sake of making your life easier here. You may just be making your life more difficult. And quite possibly the worst mistake of your life.
You could always just try moving here with your boyfriend using a tourist visa. You donīt have to go to the consulate for it, itīs simply the stamp that they put in your passport once you enter Spain (or the point of entry into Europe...make sure they stamp it, I have been in a situation where they merely looked at my passport and did not stamp it.)
While you are here, you can try getting an under the table job (which you did not hear from me) teaching English. There are plenty available if you are willing to scramble and look. try
www.infojobs.net . As far as a decent paying "corporate job"...you will never have it so long as you donīt have a legal work visa. (and expect to make less than one third your current salary, if lucky). However with your three month visa and under the table job, you can leave the European union every three months (i.e. quick trip to Swizterland or find a cheap flight to NYC for the weekend) and then have your passport stamped upon re-entry to Spain.
But then again, you didnīt hear that from me.
And by the way, I am married to a Spaniard, began the paperwork trail last April and was finally visited by the Guardia Civil this past week in the last leg of the process to receive my residentīs card and work visa. Hopefully I will have my residentīs card and work visa within a month. It has been a long road....marrying a Spaniard in the end helps to ease the process, but doesnīt necessarily make it shorter or more efficient.
[ 01-26-2002: Message edited by: Chica ]