My suegra is not so much an issue anymore, since I bring her the greatest gift of all-her 2year old granddaughter!
How wonderful!! And I bet she gets spoiled rotten!
Last year I felt like I got some good gifts here to take over: music CDs, religious books in Spanish (by American authors- this was for someone who only reads religious stuff - not all that common in Spain), fancy little cheese knives for the cheese lover, a fancy set of bath soap, hand soap, linen spray, and, I think, drawer liners (I think that's what they're called), jelly bellies and some locally made candies, a set of 6 different bath gels in a box, an emergency kit for a car.... Not really typical American things, but things I thought they might enjoy or find useful. I'd better get going on this year's gifts!!!