To anyone still following this thread,
I just got through reading "Spanish Lesssons: Beginning a New Life in Spain" by Derek Lambert, and I really enjoyed it. I thought a lot about the MadridMan while reading it. I really liked the writers sense of humor.
The story is about an English journalist, his wife and son, who decide to by a home inland from the coast, near Valencia and Denia. The majority of the story is about the challenges he has in hiring people to take care of many of his new homes problems. The good thing is, many of the problems are solved with a little patience.
If the MadridMan hasn't read it, and if he can obtain it, I would like to recommend it to him.
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