This is an interesting topic on the difference of cultures.
Short Answer about Spanish Women:
They're HOT! Hahahahaa... oops. Sorry. That wasn't very Politically Correct. I mean.. umm.. I LOVE THEM!!
Long Answer about Spanish Women:....
It seems to me, from the women in Spain I know (Spanish women, that is), that Spanish women are MUCH more friendly than their non-Mediterranean counterparts. They may not take the initiative to walk up to men in bars/discos but when they are in a conversation they seem genuinely friendly.
So they may be talking, the woman says, "Hey, let's get together for a coffee at XYZ Bar tomorrow!" The Spanish woman is thinking "Hmmm... this guy seems interesting, I hope to get to know him better over a coffee tomorrow." while the "American" guy (for example) is thinking, "Woo Hoo!! I'm dating this Spanish woman!!!" HAHAHAHAHAAA!! Spanish women have told me of calling "American" men, getting together to do things or have a coffee somewhere and ONLY as a kind of friendship - EVEN IF they're not interested in the "American" man. I have told them, the Spanish women, "Ummm.. Be careful because I'M SURE the American guy thinks that you're interested in him as a potential "mate"/boyfriend/"fling". The Spanish women were surprised to hear this from me!
So non-Spanish guys, just because the Spanish woman asks you to her house or a bar for a coffee it DOES NOT MEAN she finds you attractive, sexy, or wants to sleep with you. (well, this COULD be the case, but...) More than likely she only finds you interesting and would like to get to know you better as a person.
I understand it's difficult to get to a Spanish woman's heart in the near-spiritual sense. That they (and men too!) have "high walls" which may never be crossed in the couple's lifetime. That they are often guarded or careful no matter how much of a "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" attitude it may seem they carry.
Well, this has been my limited experience with Spanish women. I'd always heard stories that Spanish women were... ummm.. well... "liberated" and now that I know some, have talked to some Spanish women AND men, they all say the same thing, "THEY'RE NOT SO LIBERATED in "THAT" way." In fact, a man can date a Spanish woman for MONTHS without much more than a kiss taking place. It's probably worth the time spent because, hey, to me, most of the Spanish women I know are BEAUTIFUL or at least VERY attractive.
So for all those Brits, Aussies, and American men which go to Spain to "party" with fresh, young, attractive, straight-hipped, "easy" Spanish women (in their dreams and imaginations, that is), chances are EXCELLENT that nothing much more will happen than a double-cheek kiss upon meeting them.
NOW! How did I meet my madrileņa ladyfriend? Well, I met her here in the USA 9 years ago. She came to the USA, her first visit, to take a summer English course at an academy. One of her classmates was my neighbor, a Colombiana, and she introduced us thinking we'd make a good match. And guess what! We were/are. That's the short-and-sweet story. The long version I'll keep for myself.
Saludos, MadridMan